Life’s Purpose…

I often find myself contemplating the meaning of life… over my lifetime I’ve drawn inspiration from quotes and concepts like that of the The 14th Dalai Lama’s ‘The true meaning of life’

We are visitors on this planet

We are here for ninety

or a hundred years

at the very most.

During that period,

we must try to do something

good, something useful,

with our lives.

if you contribute to other

people’s happiness, you will

find the goal,

the true meaning of life.

But there are still times when I feel my efforts are lacking and purpose is unclear…

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Recently while pondering the meaning of life I’ve found solace in the act of capturing, it is as though my inner yearning to feel as alive as I did back when I was a full-time photographer is becoming subconsciously unbearable. So I’ve been keeping my camera close at hand and have even travelled with the intention of capturing that which inspires me and will hopefully inspire others. I seek to capture a way of being, a way of living, that which represents a life of purpose. Working in solitude I have had to make a conscious effort to break up my week and spend Wednesday outside of the studio, off our little property on the hill, on the edge of our rural village, and engage with others in person. With a full production schedule it’s not always easy to allow myself that time, but I know it is necessary so I make it happen.

 

 

The other day I planned to tie these two must do’s into the one day, starting with a yoga class, followed by a walk around town, chatting with friends, shop owners & anyone who crossed my path… then I ventured off to seek out inspiration to capture through my lens. I drove through streets of Yass that I’ve not driven down before just to see where they would lead and found myself here!

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What better place is there to appreciate life than a cemetery?

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It suddenly struck me that I had not, in the 6 years of living in this region, been to this cemetery. Although I have attended funerals or memorial services for friends and acquaintances from this region, I had not physically been to the cemetery, nor did I even know where it was. I literally stumbled across it. I wasn’t looking at street signs while I was driving, just taking in the beautiful homes that adorn our streets and the spectacular vistas of those homes. This cemetery is probably the least manicured I’ve ever been to, but  it was certainly the most beautiful that I have ever visited… the view is breath taking!

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As I walked around the segmented grounds, sectioned into faiths and religions, I found myself captivated by the differences in graves and head stones, some obviously from very wealthy bloodlines, and others so very obviously not, and then another realisation hit me… it matters not in the end what your position in society or you financial status, everybody ends up lying side by side, in the same place, with the same magnificent view.

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So this begs the question, does money and status mean a better life lived OR a lack of money mean a life spent serving others rather than serving self? I feel the best option is try to live a life of purpose rather than power and if you can combine the two even better! So although we’ll end up in the same place as our final resting place, with a head stone that is either weathered and illegible or etched in stone for all to see and read for years to come, it matters not. What matters more is how we spent the journey toward reaching that final destination and the impact we had on those we left behind or interacted with along the way.

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Ps. Here are a few extra pics from that day…

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Gateway to the afterlife… not as flash as some would hope 😉

 

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The all knowing tree that creaked eerily as I stood beneath it… whispering untold tales of those who have entered these grounds.

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Meandering paths of simplicity, nothing flash about these grounds… manicured grounds are not necessary when you’re surrounded by such natural magnificence.

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The ‘opt out’ passage…

 

What change do you wish to see in the world?

Over the weekend we visited a market that I often trade at, but this time as shoppers. It was so lovely to be able to just walk around at leisure, talk to stall holders without the concern of having to get back to my stall and simply observe the activities of the market throughout the entire market rather than just the view from my stall.

We were so pleased and surprised to see a fellow stall holder there who also travels to trade, our surprise was due to the fact that he and his wife usually only trade at this particular market in the summer. So of course we opened with; “What a surprise to see you here, it’s autumn! A nice surprise of course… how are you?” He looked up at us with sadness in is his eyes and said; “Our son died earlier this year, he was walking down the street pushing the pram with his 8 week old and toddler inside and he was struck by lightning! They managed to revived the children but could not revive him. So my wife is currently staying with our daughter in law helping out with the kids. She told me to get out and sell my wares today… so I did!” This man lives 3 hours drive away from this market and they usually travel there and back in a day. The courage it took for him to pack the car, make the trip, set up and then face shoppers, some of whom would probably be in the age group of the son he recently had to say goodbye to forever… as his products are children focused… it represents just how strong humans are capable of being. This is only a small part of the bigger story of the challenges this couple have faced throughout their life.

I could tell you numerous stories of heart ache, courage, strength all just through the people I have met trading at markets. This is something that I absolutely love about markets; the strength of the people there, their hope to create a happier better world despite all odds.

One of my favourite sayings is by Mahatma Ghandi “Be the change you wish to see in the world” The philosophy behind my business is “take the old & discarded and transform them into statement pieces!” The concept of this came about through both necessity and an appreciation for craftsmanship and quality. Our way of living is also based on a similar belief system, growing & making our own food as much as possible, raising our children knowing where their food comes from, spending time with their parents, getting to know who we are rather than just seeing us briefly throughout their formative years.

In reading the news this week it has been difficult to feel positive about the state of our world, but as the Dalai Lama’s post on Facebook read last night; “You are the seeds of a better future.” Our time on earth should not be spent shaking our heads and throwing our arms up in defeat, but doing what we can to provide a better existence for others and the hope that one is actually possible. The other day we spent the entire day cooking up a storm, preserving our harvest and I photographed and posted our progress on Instragram and Facebook along the way. At one point Master 12 asked me why I do this, to which I responded; “To give people something positive to view on social media. There is so much hurt, anger, negativity… I feel like people need to feel hopeful that life can be different.”

Not long after this conversation, a message came though from another fellow stall holder and friend, from a different market. Sharing their recent heartbreaking experiences and again a demonstration of sheer strength. The message ended with; “…Iove seeing the pictures of your new place and the produce etc. You guys look really happy.”  And we are… even on the days when we feel hopeless, that life’s against us having to deal with some of our own challenges, deep down inside we always feel safe and loved… which is more than we could ever hope for really.

Our life is not perfect, we spent many hours putting out spot fires (the morning of our big cook up) between our boys, but we managed to guide them towards doing something positive for themselves and the rest of the family and rest of the day was beautiful because of it.

What I hope for all of you… and anyone out there who is suffering from pain that is caused by someone else, pain beyond their control, is inner peace. My wish for a change in the world is that more people simply care about the people around them, despite a difference of opinion, religion, life choices… the more people demonstrate kindness and respect the further it will hopefully spread!

Cheers, to being the seeds for a better world… the change we wish to see in the world.

Wishing all peace, love and happiness… and hope for a better future!

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